Sooner or later, all women start thinking about planning and having a baby. But in the past few decades, the average age of a woman who decided to give birth for the first time has greatly increased and now it is in the region of 30-35 years.
In small towns and villages, women give birth earlier. On average, they are 20-25 years old. Such tendencies are quite natural - the choice of professions that can attract a young woman and give her the opportunity to realize her potential in a province is less extensive than in megacities.
In addition, in small settlements it is easier to resolve the issue of housing, an integral part of a comfortable birth and upbringing of a child. Renting a house in a large regional center can cost almost half of the money earned, so there is almost no money left to support the baby.
Also, do not forget an important step - babysitting. Who will do this while the parents are at work? Often it is not possible to pay from the family budget for babysitting services, then the mother has to leave her career and devote herself to home and upbringing, at least before the start of the stage of finding the baby in kindergarten. At this time, the father must be able to support the family alone.
Having studied all these nuances, it becomes clear that for the birth of a child, it is necessary to have capital and work that, at least for the first time, will allow you to provide everything you need. At least until the mother goes to work.
But there is an important point. A woman's biological clock continues to run inexorably, and every year the chances of a pregnancy and a trouble-free course of pregnancy are mercilessly reduced. That is why there is no need to delay the birth of the first child.
What should you do in such a situation?
The best way is to have a plan in your head. This plan should have a strategy for several years, with the right priorities. Of course, it can be changed and supplemented, but most importantly, it will help to correctly distribute your physical and material resources.
But you also need to understand that the material part is not the only thing that needs to be considered when planning a pregnancy. To give birth to a healthy baby, the body of the parents must also be healthy. It is necessary to get rid of all bad habits and undergo the necessary examinations. In this case, you will be able to give birth to a child without various pathologies. You can find out more about the necessary research in planning pregnancy on the website of the IVMED clinic -
Plus, you need to be prepared emotionally. After all, pregnancy is not the easiest period, although undoubtedly the long-awaited one in a woman's life. You need to be prepared for physical changes and limitations in your daily life.
But as practice shows, such an ideal picture described above is far from always needed, and it is not always possible. The main thing is that you want to become parents, to love and be loved.